MR. & MRS. TAN

如果我變成回憶....

2009-05-24T05:45:00.000-07:00

累了交困裡努力清醒著
也照慣例想你了
好怕一放心睡了
心跳在夢中不聽話的就停止了

聽著你心像往常還有熱
越美麗越更勇敢的
我還能展示什麼
如果我連自己的脈搏都難掌握

如果我變成回憶退出了這場生命
留下你坐挨哭泣
我冰冷身體擁抱不了你
想到我讓深愛的你仍還孤獨旅行
我會恨自己如此狠心

如果我變成回憶終於沒那麼幸運
沒機會頒這種法門
想牽著你檻門上摟緊
漫長時光總有一天你會傷心痊癒
若有人可以讓他給你我不怪你

快樂什麼時候會結束呢
哪一刻是最後一刻
想把你緊緊抱著
可知你是我生命中的最捨不得

如果我變成回憶退出了這場生命
留下你坐挨哭泣
我冰冷身體擁抱不了你
想到我讓深愛的你仍還孤獨旅行
我會恨自己如此狠心

如果我變成回憶終於沒那麼幸運
沒機會頒這種法門
想牽著你檻門上摟緊
漫長時光總有一天你會傷心痊癒
若有人可以讓他給你

如果我變成回憶最怕我單獨終極
頑固的爛在空氣不整理行李每一寸空隙
原來依然愛我的你總哭承受失去
這樣不公平請你整理把我忘記

How to RSVP?

2009-03-15T08:53:00.001-07:00

RSVP ONLINE:
1. Go to http://www.rsvpit.com
2. Enter event code:
Kuching dinner >>> shukwang310509
Singapore dinner >>> shukwang070609
3. Enter your particulars and meal preference
4. Done

OR
Contact:
Shu Kwang by through mobile / email.

~Invitation~

2009-03-15T08:19:00.001-07:00

Wedding dinner of Richard & Shu Kwang @ Singapore

2009-01-29T23:51:00.000-08:00

Date: 7th June 2009 (Sunday)
Venue: Carlton Hotel, Singapore

Wedding dinner of Richard & Shu Kwang @ Kuching

2009-01-29T23:42:00.001-08:00

Date: 31st May 2009 (Sunday)
Venue: Crown Square, Kuching

Happy Chinese New Year 2009

2009-01-29T23:16:00.000-08:00

Gong Xi Fa Cai to everyone!!! Too busy with my work and house recently.. will update this blog when i am free~

Renovation - Part 2

2008-11-15T01:19:00.000-08:00

Both of us put a lot of efforts on it and really can't wait to stay in our new house!!!
Every weekend we are spending big amount of $$ for electrical appliances, kitchen appliances, furniture, lightings and a lot more to come..... :(

Main Bedroom Walk-in-wardrobe wall up...

Main Bedroom Ceiling up...

Living & Dining Ceiling up...

Renovation - Part 1

2008-11-15T00:28:00.000-08:00

Super busy recently with house renovation and work....
Renovation for our house has already started last month and still on going.. Estimate hand over date?
Ans: Early December...

Kitchen gas pipe up...

Aircon Trunking up...

Living & Dining electrical up...

ROM Photos

2008-09-14T14:22:00.000-07:00

Dear relatives and friends,

A very big THANK YOU for your precious time and effort in attending our ROM and making it so successful!

Words cannot express the joy that we feel,
remembering that you shared the beginning of our new life together.

Thank you!

Please accept our apologies if there is any lack in hospitality.

-Richard & Shu Kwang-

7th September 2008

2008-09-09T06:33:00.000-07:00

二零零八年，九月七号。。。
陈先生与陈太太在亲友的见证下，在结婚证书上签了名。。
法律上，他们是夫妻了。。。

但对陈先生和陈太太来说，这是他们对彼此永远的承诺。。
虽然只是普通的一张结婚证书，但背后的意义，很多很多。。。。

踏上人生的另一个阶段，陈先生和陈太太的未来将多姿多彩。。。

好感动。。。。

Secret of blissful marriage

2008-08-27T23:59:00.000-07:00

A man and his girlfriend were getting married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal:
”I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage.” she offered.
“Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together.”

The husband agreed.
So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.

”I’ll start,” offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

”What’s wrong honey?” she asked.
”Nothing” the husband replied, “keep reading your list.”

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.
“Now, you read your list and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists.” She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, “I don’t have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don’t want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you.”

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don’t really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise.
Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that we are happiest when we see and praise the good and try our best to forget the bad.

3年

2008-08-27T23:39:00.000-07:00

今天是陈先生和陈太太在一起三周年。。。不知不觉已经三年了。。 3周年感觉很不一样。。从朋友变情人，从情人变夫妻。。下个星期天，在法律上，他们就是夫妻了。。真正的陈先生和陈太太。。一起步上人生的另一个阶段。。。

感谢陈先生这三年来对陈太太的细心照顾。。无限的体谅，付出。。和无限的爱。。
陈太太偶尔会无理取闹，乱发脾气，但这一切也都是为了陈先生。。

陈先生和陈太太会永远幸福快乐。。

Keys Collection

2008-07-08T21:42:00.000-07:00

Finally the day has come and over, collected our keys and settled everything within one hour. Both of us overslept in the morning, woke up ard 7am and left home around 730am. Luckily still manage to reach HDB Hub before appointment time which is at 810am.

First thing to do once we reached is get the queue number. Our Queue number: 2000 (presume we are the first coz the appointment time is so early in the morning.. haha)

Sit down and wait for our turn......

Surprisingly waited less than 3 minutes and we can proceed to the office, because we are the first.

==Inside sales office==
HDB officer: Please sign here... and here.. and here...
Our respond: OK.
HDB officer: Please check here... check this and this as well...
Our respond: OK.
--repeat above same procedure for don't know how many times.... --
HDB officer: Any question?
Our respond: No.
HDB officer: Don't worry, if you have any question, you can always call us and ask us.
Our respond: OK sure.
==END==

Finally, collected the keys...

July 2008

2008-07-03T08:14:00.000-07:00

July is really a busy month for us... huh......
- 30th June to 5th July, dear reservist
- 8th July, HDB collect house keys
- 10th July, 'open door' for new house
- 11th July to 15th July, Kuching

really lots of things to prepare... my to-do list is super long!!
Guess we need a short break after ROM... BUT cannot! got to start house renovation, start hunting home appliances...

Let me know if you spot any good deal of home appliances.. fridge, LCD TV, hood and hob, washing machine, air-con etc... last but not least... Nintendo Wii!!!

Our Love Nest - 我们的家

2008-06-23T18:08:00.001-07:00

I really think that we are very lucky... Everything just go smoothly....
8 June 2008 Sunday is a very important day to us.. today we are suppose to go down to HDB Hub to select our flat!!

We are extremely excited for the whole day and finally we manage to get our house!!

我觉得自己踏上了人生的另一个阶段。。。。一时还无法接受。。尤其是在我们肯定了我们的屋子那一刻，他抓住我的手看着我说：dear, 我们终于有我们自己的家了。。。

这简单的一句话。。让我好感动！

Wedding Dinner Banquet - Singapore

2008-05-11T22:58:00.001-07:00

Finally confirmed our Singapore actual day wedding dinner banquet.....

Date: 7th June 2009 - Sunday
Venue: CARLTON HOTEL SINGAPORE
Address: 76 Bras Basah Road, Singapore 189558

ROM - Make Up Artist (MUA)

2008-05-03T07:13:00.000-07:00

Found this Taiwanese MUA through internet... DANA

She will be taking care of my make-up, hairdo and my future husband hairdo on our ROM day...

Will be doing my trial make up and hairdo (August) once I confirm my ROM gown with Printemps..

ROM Invitation Card

2008-04-21T07:20:00.000-07:00

千辛万苦。。。终于finalize了我们的invitation card...

其实，这只是invitation card 的一部分。。。我要把它print 出来，然后再paste在card上。。。
完成了再让大家看看。。。

喜糖盒的故事。。。

2008-04-21T07:08:00.000-07:00

第一眼看见这个喜糖盒，我就决定说我一定要把它买下来。。。真的好美啊！！！

终于，在偶然的情况下。。Harvey 要到台湾去。。。所以便托他的帮忙，帮我带回来了。。。

在此由衷地感谢LEO, HARVEY & VIVIAN。。。

LEO, 不好意思啊。。。麻烦你跑来跑去，辛苦你了！！！
HARVEY,也辛苦你了！！我知道我的东西很重。。没关系啦。。就只有这么一次。。。:)
VIVIAN, 感谢你的帮忙。。东西都准时送给LEO 。。Customer service 很好！！

这些都是我亲手一个一个慢慢折的哦。。。

Our ROM Solemisation

2008-04-20T09:10:00.000-07:00

Who:
Richard Tan Kah Hock & Lim Shu Kwang

When:
7th September 2008 (Sunday), 2PM - 5PM

Where:
Grand Mercure Roxy Hotel Singapore
The Boardroom, Level 16

Solemiser:
Mr. Low Peng Kit

Grand Mercure Roxy Hotel
50 East Coast Road,
Roxy Sq via Marine Parade Rd
Singapore 428769

我们要结婚了.....

2008-04-20T09:00:00.000-07:00

亲爱的亲戚和朋友们。。。

我要向大家宣布一个好消息。。。

我们要结婚了！！

这里将记载着筹备婚礼的点点滴滴。。。
欢迎大家有空来参观。。

Hello Everyone...

Not sure if this is an appropriate way to announce this good news to the world...
We are happy to announce that We (Richard & Shu Kwang) are getting married soon.....
This blog will record all the details of our wedding (preparation and photo etc), sharing all our happy moments with everyone. Feel free to explore.....

Cheers,
Richard & Shu Kwang